This will instruct one on the best ways to go about being a Pick Up Artist and some of the fastest ways to get there. Being a Pick Up Artist is about being a man who's successful with women, and confident and comfortable with who he is. I am hoping for this to be edited by other Pick Up Artist's out there as time goes on. To be honest, if you're a woman reading this then you have no business editing this page.
Steps to become a Pick Up Artist.
1. Today, in the 21st century, Game has flourished into a major industry, helping many men to become successful with the women of their dreams. Game has grown into the Media, into books and shows like "The Pickup Artist". Of the most prominent Pick Up Artist Gurus of today are David DeAngelo, Neil Strauss [Style], Mystery, Tyler Durden [RSD], Ross Jeffries, Black Richards, and several others. These Gurus have often large followings, and each have their own distinct style of seduction.
2. Here's some steps to get you on your way to Pick Up Artist.
3. Select a style of seduction, or Method, to study under. Purchase the material they offer, and study it. Once you've become more skilled and feel that you at least have a firm grasp on that method, you may move onto another one. The idea of learning many Methods originated from Neil Strauss, a famous Pick Up Artist among the community and author of the bestseller "The Game".
4. Women who are aware of the Community [The Community being the combined world of men who are dedicated to learning seduction] will try to say things like "That would never work on me" and "That's so immature". Don't let these women fool you - if these Methods didn't work on them, then the Methods wouldn't be flourishing as they are today.
5. Your friends will also try to stop your learning by calling it "Stupid" and saying that "It'll never work". From here, you have two choices. You can either convince them to join in your studies [some are much more eager than others], or you can just keep them in the dark.
6. If you have the coin to dish out, attending a Method's "Bootcamp" is often beneficial to those just beginning. Bootcamps are taught by Instructors who have a very firm grasp on their Method and have had higher than average success with women. Some bootcamps can cost upwards of $3,000.
7. Set realistic goals, and always refer to your community's Forums for help. If you go out expecting to all of a sudden start dating supermodels, then you're going to be sorely disappointed.
8. Read books and watch videos about human psychology, body language, and socializing. Some good links of seduction lists are: pickupguide.com(articles and forum), flirtzone.com(articles), ebooks-pilot.com(videos,audios,books), seduction.com(articles), newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast.
9. Do not be afraid of setbacks. Everyone has setbacks. Those who succeed are the one that handle the setbacks better.
Tips to become a Pick Up Artist.
1. Always remain positive. There is no use in being negative or giving up because you messed up your first set.
2. Have fun learning Game and sarging! Game should never be a chore.
3.Make friends within the Community, and go out sarging together. It's amazing what two friends helping each other can do.
4. You must also understand what to become a pick up artist you can't to do a great deal about the head you have, however you can certainly can do something about your body. If you are obese and look lousy, you have to go to the gym and begin to take care of yourself. The body is the majority of you and it is the part of you that can work on right away. I don't get how guys can forget this.
5. If you desire to become really incredible at getting women, you need to
learn to start having fun. If there is one thing a guy should to when he's out that will step-up the chances with females tenfold is to seem like you are having fun. Guys go out to meet a woman. Girls go out to have fun. So if you're not in a fun mood you shouldn't think about going out to a bar. Go in with the mind set that the outcome is not a big deal. Don't overly worry if the girl disses you.
6. If you want to know how to become a pick up artist, it doesn't matter where you are, you always want to carry yourself as if you're the most important person in the room. You're not there just to blend in. You're there to be the most important man in the place, by a mile. This is not about being a jerk. Act just like the president would carry himself. A leader doesn't have to be a tough guy or like a jerk. By how he carries himself, it's possible to tell that the guy is important.
Warnings
1. First and foremost, there are NO shortcuts to becoming a Pick Up Artist . No "magic bullets". You must learn the hard way, though Methods make the "hard way" considerably easier, ironically.
2. Some Pick Up Gurus are fakes. Many Forums have Threads about these fakes, but always do your research before dedicating yourself to a Method.
3. Many Methods will say things like "Instant Success With Women!" or things like that. Some will make absurd claims [Some, amazingly, are true claims], but again it circles back to doing your research.
The requirements to become a Pick Up Artist...
Reading about something can only set you upon a path to doing it yourself. You have to splash around and get wet in 'the field' to truly understand and become a Pick Up Artist. You will have to go out and look stupid and fail and hopefully you will laugh at yourself and not take the process too seriously. Practice regularly and you will begin to get good in a few months.
Fulfilling your destiny also means sacrifice. You will not be taking the typical path. Your parents, friends, and cat may not understand. They may think you selfish and foolish for making the decisions you will have to make. That's life. Follow your dreams and get comfortable with being misunderstood.
Picking up women is a form of negotiation. As in any negotiation, if you maintain the freedom to walk away you are more likely to get what you want. Find a cool hobby you can pursue by yourself. Although there are many important tenets of being a pick up artist, the one that seems to pervade nearly all of what we teach at CSI is the concept of being genuine, or at least appearing to be genuine. And in the wacky way that male-female interactions work, appearances are sometimes more important than reality.
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